If one of you has already spoken the words, I want a divorce, then you may think you’re already on a highway with no exits and only one destination. But if you are having second thoughts, don’t despair.
Rushing into a divorce is just as wrong as rushing into a marriage. You and your spouse have worked together over the years to face life’s challenges and now you must work together to save your marriage.
The strength of a marriage gives you an advantage over other couples who have never bothered to tie the knot. You both made a commitment in front of your friends and families to stay together through thick and thin.
If you are the one who said the dreaded word first, you will need to go to your spouse and explain that you were talking without thinking. Now that you’ve had time to think about it you know that the reality is that you never wanted a divorce. Read the rest of this entry